Having the vision. Knowing what the end goal is. Being able to stick to it, even if that means being disagreeable.

There is silver lining to the rain clouds. Joy in sorrow. Gratitude in misfortune.

In a given week, how many purchases do you negotiate? Between restaurants, grocery stores and subscription services, weekly expenses don’t lend themselves to conducive environments to negotiate; although Malcolm Gladwell might take the position that you should be a bit more disagreeable here. If you’re buying bigger items, like windows, or a remodel, or cabinets…

Talk me off the ledge. Help me consider another perspective. What approach can I take right now that’s going to help me grow the most in the next 6 months? The power of mentors.

Approaching with purposeful curiosity. Why am I pursuing this? Why do I feel this way? Feeling rudderless is frustrating, being purposefully curious is invigorating.