I’ve learned an enormous amount in the past 7 months. (To put this into perspective just take whatever room you’re sitting in right now – all I’ve learned in the past 7 months couldn’t fit in there.) A few of my favorite, and most valuable, things I’ve learned in those months have been 1) be…
Author: Elizabeth Beeli
Stop Looking for Service Opportunities
How often do you hear someone say “I’m looking for service opportunities, maybe volunteering at a soup kitchen? I’m just really trying to get involved”? Meanwhile, their yard needs work, they have broken relationships and numerous piles of both virtual and literal dirty dishes? Now, take a moment to reflect, are there any dirty dishes…
It Is Best
Identifying the problem is a necessary first step. However, it is often the BEST step. It is best to identify the problem than not. It is best to be aware than ignorant. It is best to be willing to admit you’ve made a mistake than hiding in denial. It is best to walk only briefly…
Entitlement – Expectation Gone Bad
The best defense against comparison is a heart of gratitude. Gratitude is the opposite of entitlement. Entitlement is the corruption of unmet expectations. Expectations are all around us and not all are inherently bad. I would argue that you are currently acting based on an expectation. You expect that the furniture you’re sitting on will…
Slaying the Dragon of Comparison
I have a theory. The happiest people are the most vulnerable. Now, this may seem like an uncomfortable statement because many of us think we dislike vulnerability. Vulnerability is a) admitting weakness b) and often ask for help, both of which can be uncomfortable. However, I actually think we love the action of vulnerability, being…