Frozen, I couldn’t make up my mind.
There were so many options and opinions.
The direction was unclear.
I had overthought to the point of analysis paralysis.
It was my junior year of high school and I had to choose between continuing my debate career and breaking away to something that would ultimately grow my career and skills more.
There were a lot of pieces to the puzzle. Many people wanted me to pursue my career in debate. I had experienced some success and there was potential for that streak to continue. My coach wanted me to continue to further the team and carry on the legacy, I was afraid of the alternative, not doing debate.
I was very close to making a decision off of the opinions of others.
What stopped me? Alignment.
I did some searching and clearly identified my purpose. Then I continued to make the decisions that most aligned with this purpose.
Once you do that you realize that the noise doesn’t matter and you are able to live a more authentic life avoiding analysis paralysis.