This may be unconventional advice but, I believe you should listen to what others have to say about you.

Listening doesn’t mean you have to agree with it, and you certainly should not blindly accept what they say as truth.

I would be a fool to say that human perception is accurate the majority of the time.

However, it does tell you one thing.

How others perceive you.

And that is valuable information to know.

Even though, it may not be true.