People love to talk about themselves.
And honestly that can be quite a good thing.
Especially when those people happen to be your customers, or potential customers.
With a few thoughtful questions you can identify the pain point this customer is trying to solve and if/how you can help .
Don’t be afraid to ask questions, but be especially attentive to their answers.
Because a question is useless if the answer is not listened to. Similarly, the best self help books can have the equivalent value of a TV show if no different action is taken after reading it.