In John Grays’ book “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” he discusses an intereting phenomina around women.
Women compensate with the fear of “unworthiness” by being attentive and responsive to the needs of others.
As women mature they learn to put limits in order to receive what they want.
Lie: You become more worthy by giving.
Truth: You don’t have to give more to have a better relationship.
When a little girl sees her mother receive she automatically feels worthy of love.
When considering the above I don’t know if I can identify a single women in my life who would be qualified as a “mature women.” And a flame is sparked in me to better define what a mature women who sets limits is like.